Welcome to the Media Room

I’ve created this online media room to make your job easier. If you need anything else, please email me.

I'm deeply honored by your interest for an interview. I’m committed to making you shine and your audience the focus. I’m here to serve you.

I know if I do my job well, your audience will feel valued and learn: - What it means to be intentional about the legacy we leave.
- The cost living in the lies we eat, believe, buy, tell, and avoid. 
- How to transform their lives with simple and practical steps.
- And much more.

Unless otherwise directed, I’ll be sharing our interview to my Facebook Author page, Instagram, LinkedIn and Twitter followers, and my email list.

Below you'll find a directory. It's been designed for easy navigation, so you can get what you need quickly. I look forward to connecting. —Brenda Haire


Why Brenda's Message Is Important

We are busier than we've ever been, but we're left discouraged, distracted, and defeated.

  • Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the U.S.

  • Obesity is common, serious, and costly and affected about 93.3 million of U.S. adults in 2015-2016.

  • Stress: According to the American Psychological Association, adults are more likely to find family responsibilities stressful than they have in the past.

  • Burnout prevention programs are being instated in corporations.

  • Depression is a common mental disorder. Globally, more than 300 million people of all ages suffer from depression, according to the World Health Organization.

  • Clutter isn't just in our hearts and minds, it is spilling out of our overstuffed homes into 2.3 billion square feet of storage units across America. Storage is a $38 billion dollar industry!

We long to be fulfilled, focused, and fearless! Readers will learn to live in reverse—with the end in mind—leaving a legacy that makes a difference.

  • Realize how they are being influenced by their environment

  • Learn to live in reverse to leave a message and not a mess

  • Have tools that keep them focused

  • Accept the impact their lack of focus has on their influence

  • Clarify their opportunities for impact and influence

  • Understand how their start can make for an amazing finish

  • Discover their own potential and be able to identify it in others

  • Identify the lies keeping them from fulfillment

  • Reveal what self-destructive habits are holding them back

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Sample Interview Questions

1. Can you explain the title? 

2. Why did it take you 15 years to write this book?

3. You book is nonfiction, but it seems to blur the lines of memoir, biography and self-help, tell us more. 

4. Did the book ever change direction from what you thought it was going to be, to what it is now?

4. You’ve created a framework to understanding your worth and living it. Why is it important to have a plan?

6. Share one of the 5 lies you need to trash from part one of Save the Butter Tubs and why we should trash it?

7. Do you feel this book was Divinely inspired and if so, why?

8. What are some of the benefits of discovering and knowing your worth?

9. How did you go about choosing the right publisher for this project?

10. You are helping people through speaking and coaching, why would someone want a Legacy Coach?

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What Others Are Saying

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"Brenda is right about discovering our worth in this disposable world. When you know your worth you will live accordingly. Everyone around you will benefit. So don’t put this book down until you’re transformed by the truth printed on these pages. Allow Brenda’s stories and those of her grandmother’s to penetrate your soul.  Because guess what? WE are the butter tubs! (Perhaps this is why my mom has saved every single one she has ever used. I’ll have to tell her I’m sorry for making fun of her the past 40 years.) And it is never too late to be who you were meant to be...I’m living proof of that."—Melissa Radke, author of Eat Cake. Be Brave.

“Powerful. Inspiring. Personal. Vulnerable. I began reading Save the Butter Tubs on a recent flight, and I was so captivated by each page that I did not want the flight to end. Brenda has the unique ability to communicate as a writer and speaker through personal life stories. She helps you focus on your God-given potential rather than the many distracting limitations we face in life.”—Alex Velarde, Lead Pastor, LifePoint Fellowship Church, Tyler, Texas

“Only someone like Brenda could have written Save the Butter Tubs. She knows from experience how light can shine from the broken places of our soul. You will never think of a butter tub the same way again, if you grasp the message of worthiness Brenda shares through her writing and speaking engagements.”—Joan L. Turley, author of Scared Work in Secular Places


“In Save the Butter Tubs, Brenda shares the five lies that hold us back from our biggest dreams. She reveals—through her journey and her grandmother’s—how you already have all you need to live the life you want and leave a legacy that matters.”—Kary Oberbrunner, author of Your Secret Name, The Deeper Path, and Day Job to Dream Job

“Sometimes the overall complexities of life have an uncanny way of hindering the maturity of our spiritual and even our psychological well beings. Having attended a small group ministry, in which Brenda Haire was the leader/facilitator, I can say with honesty that she will encourage and challenge you in her new book, Save the Butter Tubs, to rise above who you think you are and instead step into your God created purpose. So, ‘Save the Butter Tubs’ —because God doesn’t make any throwaways."—Keith Lough, Pastor, King of Glory, Dallas, Texas

Meet the Author, Brenda Haire


Usually, this spot is reserved for telling you, in third person, how great I am. Well, I don’t like boring author bios, so I thought I’d just write from my heart.

My name is Brenda, and I’m a cry baby. I mean, if you spend enough time around me, you will probably see me cry. Seeing others cry makes me cry. Tears of joy or sadness, they flow just the same. I’m a romantic sap. I love LOVE!

I spent many years not feeling loved and wondering about my own worth. Now I’m a speaker, life strategy and business coach, and author of Save the Butter Tubs!: Discover Your Worth in a Disposable World helping individuals, discouraged by a lack of direction, distracted by a fear of not measuring up, and defeated by depression, tune into their Victory Channel, a place where you’re created and worthy, commanded and fearless, commissioned and focused, leading a life worthy of your calling.

I love to do the unexpected. I’ve completed four half marathons and a sprint triathlon just for the challenge. I currently serve our community through LifePoint Fellowship Church as a communicator, on the Directional Leadership team, and as Social Media Director.

My hubs (as I so lovingly refer to him on social media), Darren, and I are both military veterans. We love hiking and chasing waterfalls. We live in Texas with our beautifully blended family: Brittany, her husband Jake, and my adorable grandson Hayes; son James; Beth (please wait about five more years to get married); and our loyal Jack Russell, Maggie.

Short Bio

Brenda a speaker, life strategy and business coach, and author of Save the Butter Tubs!: Discover Your Worth in a Disposable World. She helps individuals, discouraged by a lack of direction, distracted by a fear of not measuring up, and defeated by depression, tune into their Victory Channel, a place where you’re created and worthy, commanded and fearless, commissioned and focused, leading a life worthy of your calling.

She and her hubs (as she so lovingly refers to him on social media), Darren, are both military veterans. They love hiking and chasing waterfalls. They live in Texas with their beautifully blended family and their loyal Jack Russell, Maggie.

Save the Butter Tubs Summary

What if You Could Turn Your Ordinary Into Extraordinary?

It’s easy to feel like you’re not good enough. Culture tells us we need a better education, a younger appearance, a nicer car, and a bigger house. We find ourselves unfulfilled and overwhelmed. “I’m busy” becomes our go-to answer to  creatively avoid anything that hints of rejection or fear.

Are you feeling


For decades, Brenda believed lies that reduced her worth. Left struggling with depression and low self-esteem, she searched for her purpose. She found it in the most unusual place–the ordinary. In Save the Butter Tubs, Brenda provides a plan for living that will lead you to a place of peace and purpose.

Instead of wondering if you matter, you will be


Are you ready to declutter your mind, home, and heart? Learn how to recognize your potential and turn your ordinary into extraordinary starting today!

As a speaker, coach and torchbearer, Brenda has a deep passion to help others find clarity to make every day matter. She is a military veteran and lives in Texas with her husband and beautifully blended family.